Grace-living

I made of list of things I should or could be doing.

BUT....I'm bored with all that.  I do but I don't want to do any of it.  Is it about what I want or is there something You want?  Sometimes grace gives me too much freedom that I don't know how to live in it.  

How do I live in Your grace today? 

“You who are trying to be justified by the law are alienated from Christ; 

you have fallen from grace.”

Galatians 5:4 

So don't try to be justified by the law.  Stop trying to be okay (aiming for some degree of perfection) as a means of feeling like you're okay.  Being perfect does not work because there is no way any of us can do what true perfection demands.  So stop!  Just stop. 

Before you turn around and start picking up your nonsense again...take heed of what a life lived in grace means ...like today, right now.

To live in grace we must first step away from our tendency to make ourselves feel okay.  This means we may have to sit with that terrible feeling of boredom or anxiety or restlessness until it passes through our system or God tells us to calmly do something.  But we must not try to run from it, because it is a part of our suffering on earth to feel how bad things could have been in order to rejoice in how good things truly are thanks to Jesus!  This life will show us bad things for a reason, and instead of fearing those feelings we must learn to sit in them with God as we are being trained to live in His grace. 

So you feel bored? Anxious? Overwhelmed? Confused? 

Don't try to do something to feel okay. 

Don't fall from grace. 

(Galatians 5:4)

To live in grace often means to feel why we need Him so much.  We are useless, void, empty, and pathetic without Him.  We are nothing without Christ.  When we feel those terrible feelings come over us, let them lead you into His grace.  

Be taken in by your good Father for an epic embrace.

“For you were called to be free, brothers; 

only don’t use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, 

but serve one another through love. 

For the entire law is fulfilled in one statement: Love your neighbor as yourself.”

Galatians 5:13-14 

What matters is faith working through love...

Evidence of a life lived in grace is a life lived in loving others. 

Today.

Right now.

Are you living in grace? 

Jmegrey 

We are parfum le Saint-Esprit!

If you need a do-over today, take time to confess your sins to God, ask Him for forgiveness, and start over because you can!

We are like, as they say in French, "parfum"
Very, very precious and expensive parfum.

Chanel smells expensive, Dior smells rich, bath and body works smells fun, but there is a scent that gives off more than just a scent.

There is a fragrance that, when smelled, produces the ability to fill you with life!
Not the feeling that life is good, but the reality of it!  A scent that gives you full confidence that God is real, God is good and God loves you!  A parfum that has power to change a person's heart!  Would you want this powerfully life-giving parfum?

God has given this to each of us, which is the Holy Spirit.  We've been given the parfum of God and it is our job to bring people the aroma of life!  Not the feeling of it, but the reality!

How do we spread this scent?
We simply go where God will put us on display for someone and we seize that opportunity let the Holy Spirit ooze from our hearts like a strong aroma!  All we do is recognize that God is putting us on display!  You're being displayed because God is about to pump out the scent of life to save someone through you!  Not of you, but of the Holy Spirit in you.  All you do is whatever the Holy Spirit says in that very moment.  He doesn't give the whole plan, He gives moment by moment directions.

Some people love walking into a coffee shop because the room smells like coffee!  How much more would children of God love walking into a room that smelled like God!
Let us become a people who, every word and expression that comes from us, fills the lost or stumbling up with life!

I sometimes store away my expensive perfume to save it because it runs out the more I use it, but this parfum WORKS DIFFERENTLY.
This parfum, if not used, will run out!
But the more you use it the more of it you will have!

“But thanks be to God, who
always puts us on display in Christ and
through us spreads the aroma of
the knowledge of Him in every place.

For to God we are
the fragrance of Christ among
those who are being saved and
among those who are perishing.

To some we are an aroma of death leading to death, but to others, an aroma of life leading to life.
And who is competent for this?
For we are not like the many who market God’s message for profit. On the contrary, we speak with sincerity in Christ, as from God and before God.”
‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭2:14-17‬ ‭

Who is competent to be an aroma of life?
Do you feel able to do this?
I don't!
All I know is that Jesus died for my sins, so all my incompetence is swallowed up by His blood!
I'm only competent to be a life-giving parfum if I am in Christ!  Forgiven, empowered, and filled by His Spirit to go where He will put me on display to seek and save all those who are lost.
Though our outer man is dying (our flesh is weak) our inner man is being renewed day by day with the parfum of life!  Our renewing others is in turn a renewal for ourselves as well!

“We have this kind of confidence toward God through Christ.
It is not that we are competent in ourselves to consider anything as coming from ourselves, but our competence is from God.
He has made us competent to be ministers of a new covenant, not of the letter, but of the Spirit.
For the letter kills, but the Spirit produces life.”
‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭3:4-6

Don't forget you are very precious and expensive parfum with a purpose today!  To spread the aroma of life to everyone and anyone God puts you on display for!

Love you guys.
Jmegrey

Give shame?

2 Thess. 3:14-15

If anyone does not obey our instruction in this letter, take special note of that person 

and do not associate with him, so that 

he will be put to shame.

Do not regard him as an enemy, 

but warn him as a brother.

When I first read this passage I immediately recoiled thinking "is that Christ-like?!  Is that loving?!  To intentionally make someone feel ashamed?"  It felt wrong, but here it was in the authoritative Word of God.  So I had to re-think deeper about its meaning. 

Shame: noun- the painful feeling arising from the consciousness of something dishonorable, improper, ridiculous, etc., done by oneself or another.  

This definition reveals two facts about shame:

1. That is is a feeling (rising from something dishonorable, improper) 
2. It can arise by yourself- feeling ashamed for doing what you know is wrong- or arise by others who show you that what you did was wrong.

So when we look back at the passage Paul is telling the church family to be observant about what is truly right and wrong.  Our culture tells us it's shameful to be weak, dependent, poor, or unpopular, so we feel ashamed when we are too fat, too poor, or too weak, but God's Word says it's shameful to disobey God's good and perfect law.  

We can only adhere to one truth, and that is the one we will daily live by. 

We need to make sure we are walking right before God on God's terms not our own, but we are also called to help each other do the same.  If your legs feel fine but your eye is bleeding would you neglect your eyes just because your legs feel fine?  No way!  You want your entire body, soul, and mind to be well and healthy.  To neglect one part when it is sick is to let that part go on dying.  Paul is simply reminding us that in the same way, as members of one body (the church is Jesus's body) we should have that kind of mentality toward one another.  

If shame is a feeling of wrong then it would be accurate for someone who is doing wrong to feel wrong.  However, our definition of "wrong" must not be our own, governed by our feelings, but God's definition governed by His Word.  It would also be a sin of passivity to let wrong be cultivated as something right.  Paul is telling us to be discerning not so that we start judging everyone's wrong, but so that we bring people into what is right and good.  At the same time it opens ourselves to receive correction from others as well.  

Verse 15 says don't treat this person as an enemy (the one who is doing wrong by God's Word) but if you let someone know that what they are doing is wrong do so with the intention of helping them in the process to get back on track.  Not to "quit" on them. 

On the opposite end, if someone is repentant about a wrong they did to you, it would be a sin to continue treating them with unforgiveness just because we still feel offended.  

All christians are called to endure suffering.  We are all still sinners, but if we continue to judge each others' sins without forgiveness then we are saying Jesus died for no reason.  Everyday we are being forgiven for the sins we still commit and for as long as we live we will survive God's perfectly just judgment only by having a repentant heart, therefore in the same way everyday we must forgive others as well for that is why Jesus died.  

For you. 

For me.

For the church body (made up of wicked sinners) 

We are all one in the same.  

If you find yourself doing what Paul writes here, 

not associating with someone in the church so that they feel ashamed, be very weary that you do so out of sincere love for that person and not because they annoy you.  Otherwise you will be breaking the command of God just as much if not more than that person.  Two wrongs don't make a right.  One right makes everyone right, that right-ness comes from Jesus.  Examine where your heart needs forgiveness before you examine someone else's so that when we do make someone feel ashamed it will be out of love for that person. 

Love you guys.  

Jmegrey

When you need faith to refuel your certainty

Renew my mind 

Sometimes it feels like you just can't help the way you feel. 

Am I right or am I right? 

Notice I didn't say "sometimes you just can't help the way you feel."

I said: "sometimes it FEELS like you just can't help the way you feel."

Maybe because the feeling is so strong and the opposition so unsatisfying.  If I feel annoyed then feeling happy or grateful looks like moldy fruit that I don't want to bite into.  (Haha) Or to put it another way: saying I see blue when I see red looks like I'm falling into a vapid lie.  It looks wrong.  I just want what's right. 

So how do we change what's inside of us?  

If the Bible says "rejoice always" (Philippians 4:4) meaning ALWAYS or "give thanks in all circumstances" (1 Thess. 5:18) as in ALL circumstances, but we find ourselves in the "exceptions."  

The margins of what we think are the exceptions to what God says in His Word, because if it's not an exception in our minds then we're defying God, making Him out to be wrong or incapable.  Thinking we are in an exception eases our conscious minds from having to feel as if we are against God.  Because we want to stay feeling "Christian" under the safe umbrella of getting heaven. 

Does that sound reasonably true?  

It does to me.  

So, annoying doesn't feel happy, angry doesn't feel grateful, and bored doesn't feel full of wonder.  Let me add that hurt doesn't feel loved, rejection doesn't feel accepted, poor doesn't feel rich, etc. 

Some days (let's be real, some weeks or even months) I feel so strongly that what's inside could never change to what the Bible tells me I should be.  I wake up moody, annoyed, bored or unsatisfied and I try to try "spending time with God" and it's like the last 5 pounds you try to lose that just won't budge.  Have I driven the point home about the issue here?  

When what we think and consequently feel is contrary to what God says--this is a problem if we are to think reasonably. 

I feel like I can't change. I feel like I can't be happy because how could I be happy when I don't get what I want?  

Isn't that a good question? Haha

Ask your bad attitude next time:

"How can I be happy when I don't get what I want?"

It'll feel like a very good question. 

How can I see red and say I see blue?  How can I let go of my desire to be beautiful, healthy, secure, and awesome in life when losing those things feels so much like ruin?  I know it's better when I do, I know I don't know what's really good compared to God, but what do I do when what I know and what I feel seem so irreconcilably against each other? 

Sometimes it feels like if God's truth is blue and my perception is red the battle goes something like: 

I say I see blue (but I really see red.)

I say I see blue! (But I really see red.)

I SEE BLUE! BLUE! BLUE! (Red.)

Sigh. 

Sometimes this repetitive focusing method works for a while and I see blue continually by continually focusing on blue (blue being the truth about God), but sooner or later I can't help that I end up seeing some red in a single moment of forgetting to focus on seeing blue.  Red is the ugly things I see in my life: things like lack of success, lack of the beauty I want, lack of value, lack of health, lack of getting what I want the way I want it and when I want it, lack! Lack! Lack!  Of course in my mind these reds are all justified reasons for feeling red feelings like annoyed, dissatisfied, bored and/or angry.  

If I see red then I feel red.  

If I see lack then I feel lack.

But the word of God says something different. 

The Bible essentially says that when we see red it's not really red, and when we don't see red, it could actually be red.  In other words there is more to life than meets the eye.

Nerdy interjection: 

Philosophers love to discuss the insanity of "true colors" because you can't feel or touch a color.  They ask questions about what makes something "real"?  Is it real if we can see it? Touch it? Taste it? Smell it? Hear it? What happens when you cant do any of those things like with the number 2?  Is the number real?  Of course it's real in the sense that it can be true.  There can be two of something, but the reality of there being two has nothing to do with our perceptual abilities to make it real.  It's true because other things around it make it true by relation.  Two is real when we are talking about two chairs, two hours, two plus two or visualizing the symbol for the numerical value "2."  So back to colors, if we see red does that mean it's real?  How we define reality is precisely what governs our lives. 

I REPEAT: 

How we define reality is precisely 

what governs our lives.

How do you define reality? 

Are you governed by your eyes?

Are you governed by your feelings?

Or are you governed by the Word of God? 

Learning to live in the light of truth, to go with my example: living to see blue, means picking up a different set of skills than the ones you were naturally born with. 

For starters:

a life in Christ is 

a life in faith. 

Naturally we live by sight but super-naturally we switch to what is superior to nature: that which is spiritual.  Faith is spiritual because it is given to us by the Spirit of God. 

So while sight is natural, faithfulness is spiritual.  

3 things to know about faith:

1. Faith is a kind of steadiness that supports what we know from God--sight does little to support what we know from God, especially if it has to do with what's in our future.  (Logically speaking we cannot see our future.)  Faith is like the fuel to our need for assurance.  Therefore we must learn to get our spiritual fuel from a spiritual source, we can't get our car gas from our kitchen faucet, likewise we can't get our spiritual assurance from our natural senses.  You can't get apples from a plastic tree or clean water from a dirty pipe.  We know we need fuel, but where we go to get it will make all the difference.  Therefore, we must learn and practice fueling our need with faith.  When you feel like you've run out of fuel...consider where you get your refill. 

2. Faithful living is having a new set of expectations.

Faithful living requires us to examine what we expected that resulted in our feeling.  Do our expectations match the expectations God told us to have or do they come from expecting something on our own terms and in our timing?  Faithfulness is a gradual transforming of our expectations. This means learning to habitually and routinely act according to what God says we should expect IN HIS TIMING.  An expectation is an outcome, but if our outcome comes from God then so will the timing of it.  But if our outcome comes from us then so will the timing of it.  To be faithful in our expectations (which is to live by and in faith) simply means to let go of our control of time.  Timing on the expected outcome must be allocated to uncertainty on our part if it is to be certain on God's.  In order to get God's outcome we must get His timing too.  

3. Faithfulness is having a feeling too.

Faithfulness fuels our feeling of certainty about what we don't see in the natural.  Living by faith and in faith means holding a degree of invisibility with vigor.  WITH VIGOR.  It's about getting excited about the unknown.  Like a kid who's mom or dad says they have a super good surprise for them.  The anticipation and excitement in what they don't see but in what they are told.  The words "I have a super awesome surprise for you!" can fill a child with so much joy in what they don't see.  

Learning to stoke the feelings of faith require hearing our Father tell us He has a super good surprise for us everyday.  This means hearing the word of God and His promises each day.  

But we are not of those who shrink back to destruction, but of those who have faith to the preserving of the soul.

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.

-Hebrews 10:39-11:1

Recap if you already forgot everything above: 

When what you feel, think or see doesn't match what you know to be true from God's Word then the problem is just that: you're not matching.  

For the flesh desires what is against the Spirit, and the Spirit desires what is against the flesh; these are opposed to each other, so that you don't do what you want. (Gal. 5:17)

To match the pieces resulting in a whole life in Christ, you have to pair faith (what God says) with your life.  

Aside from a life paired with faith you cannot expect a whole life in Christ...just as half a circle plus half a triangle makes neither a whole circle nor a whole triangle.  

Faith is how we abide in Christ, but faith is not simply saying you believe.  It's steadiness in what to expect resulting in feeling more and more certain that it will be as God says.  All we do is what we can to hear, remember, and pray for grace in His timing of all things. 

It's when we live in the funky half and half that we begin to not bear that good fruit.

"I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing." 

-John 15:5

Jmegrey.

Our part and God's part = child and parent

Hello family,

I want to take a moment to pause and remember that God is unchanging, but we are not.  We change, so if you've lost your way it's not God who needs to change (He is unchangeable) its you because you are changeable.

With God we are children, but sometimes when things don't go our way we forget who our Father is and we reverse the roles.  We make ourselves the boss and God our child, telling God what to do and how to do it.  But of course this never works because God is unchanging.  He cannot ever stop being God, but we can stop being His children.

We do our part as the child and God does His as the Parent, but what is our part?  Thank God our part is not about being perfect!  Christ took care of that for us.

When Israel was told how to walk before God, God was saying that this is the way- the unchanging way- to walk before Me.  The unchanging part was not about Israel's place before God as His people, but about the way to be.  Israel was graciously shown the way to be God's people, but they were responsible for responding to it.  They could choose or choose not to listen.  They chose not to.

“A man of God came to Eli and said to him, “This is what the Lord says: ‘Didn’t I reveal Myself to your ancestral house when it was in Egypt and belonged to Pharaoh’s palace?
Out of all the tribes of Israel, I selected your house to be priests, to offer sacrifices on My altar, to burn incense, and to wear an ephod in My presence.
I also gave your house all the Israelite fire offerings.
Why, then, do all of you despise My sacrifices and offerings that I require at the place of worship?
You have honored your sons more than Me, by making yourselves fat with the best part of all of the offerings of My people Israel.’”
‭‭1 Samuel‬ ‭2:27-29‬ ‭

Basically God is saying, I told you who I was.  I'm God Almighty!  And is that how you respond to God?  By stealing my food and ignoring my presence?  If that's how you "honor me" then NO LONGER will I be your God.  God does not change the way He is.
You either treat God as God or you don't.  If He's not treated like He's your Father then He won't be.  Eli's sons disregarded God again and again without repentance so God disregarded them without mercy.  Repentance is a request for mercy, but you can't take hold of something you never reached for.  

1. "Then I will raise up a faithful priest for Myself.

2. He will do whatever is in My heart and mind.

3. I will establish a lasting dynasty for him,

4. and he will walk before My anointed one for all time.”
‭‭1 Samuel‬ ‭2:35‬ ‭

Notice that this faithful priest is not a robot.
God is going to raise someone up, raising a child means teaching them what's right from wrong through a long process of falling and getting back up, mourning losses and celebrating victories.  God is saying He is going to enter into a Father-child relationship with one who will end up doing His will not by force but by learning and being taught.  Unlike the rebellious sons of Eli, this person would respond to God as their good Father which would produce repentance and growing obedience.  Any child who really trusts their parents will listen but the one who distrusts their parents will simply ignore them and do whatever they think is right in their own eyes--that's what Eli's sons did.  God was looking for a true son not a fake child.

--->We do as we are taught.  (Who is teaching you?  Choose your teachers wisely. <---

THEN! God said, after this person has been raised and trained by God, God will establish his ways because if you do things God's way then you'll get God's promised results.  God knows what we need and He knows how to get it.  So if He teaches us then He will prove Himself worthy of His own methods through our obedience.

Love you guys.
Jmegrey

When it doesn't go as you expected

Family, we are in the process of either building the kingdom of God which will last even after these bodies of ours give up their last dying breath, or we will be building up for ourselves a house made of sand soon to collapse.  

A house made of sand is one which we build just for this life.  Always trying to make more money for more comfort in life or to become more beautiful for more admiration, or build an outstanding career for more reputation and recognition here--these are sand castles.  If you find yourself falling a apart at the loss of these things (especially in the way you talk with one another and get angry or defensive) then recognize that you are building your life in the sand.   I can't stop you from doing so, I can only give you the knowledge but you have to receive it and humbly ask God to lead you out of it. 

After these bodies die so will the sand houses we built for them.  

Understand that we are all in the construction business.  

Whatever we lose today, let's lose it as a means of gaining Christ and remember that it's not about what we deserve in the flesh, it's about what we believe about the atoning work of Jesus on the cross--both for ourselves when it comes to our sins and for those who sin against us.  

"Complete your outdoor work, 

and prepare your field; 

afterward, build your house.

I went by the field of a slacker and by the vineyard of a man lacking sense. Thistles had come up everywhere, weeds covered the ground, and the stone wall was ruined. 

I saw, and took it to heart; 

I looked, and received instruction: 

a little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the arms to rest, and your poverty will come like a robber, your need, like a bandit.”

Proverbs 24:27, 30-34 

We all want the best possible life we can get.  If yours is simply one that's awesome here on earth then be prepared to lose it all when you die.  But if the life you want includes this life and life eternal then pay close attention to the wisdom in Proverbs 24.  Every action has a reaction, don't do today alone.  If God calls you to the field then go with Him, if He calls you to tears then go with Him, if He calls you to lose your comfort then lose it with Him, whatever you do or whatever you lose, do it all and lose it all for surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus who did it all and lost it all for you.  He is our life both here and forever.  

My prayer for us is that we don't do today alone.  Things may not go as expected, that's because we are not in control. Haha.  But we can always rely on the One who is.  Do everything with Him who loves you today.

Love you guys.

Jmegrey

When good things become evil

“Give, and it will be given to you; a good measure — pressed down, shaken together, and running over — will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, 

it will be measured back to you.”

Luke 6:38 

The truth about God being God and us being obedient is to recognize the vast difference between what God says and what your flesh says. In the area of giving (our time, money, effort, food, or vulnerability, etc) we simply give away what will be given to us in return.  If you can only give others one thing then you will only get one thing in return.  If you give others everything you will get everything in return.  That's basically what God is saying.  Life starts when we give everything away, like Jesus did.  That's how God created it to be. This isn't a "to-do list" to check off--it's not about you giving tons of money away so you'll get tons of money back, or laying your time down for an annoying person so that when you're annoying someone will still have to lay their time down for you--it's not that kind of giving.  It's the belief in our hearts that what we lose from our giving is not really a loss, but is what we invest in receiving from God in His perfect timing.  No loss goes unnoticed, and we believe this.  That is why we can give even though we don't know when or how it will be given to us. The way we treat others reveals the way we know who God is.  

“But woe to you who are rich, for you have received your comfort. 

Woe to you who are now full, for you will be hungry. 

Woe to you who are now laughing, for you will mourn and weep. 

Woe to you when all people speak well of you, for this is the way their ancestors used to treat the false prophets.”

Luke 6:24-26 

This is not a verse about how being rich or full or having a good reputation is evil. But they certainly can be!  When we don't put those gifts in God's hands to give us at His timing and in His method, usually because we are so anxious for them, we turn what is good into evil. Daily choices that don't trust God to give us comfort, fullness and acceptance are daily choices that distrust God to be good.  And that breeds in the heart like subtle poison as bitterness against God grows.  If God is not good then God is bad, and that suppressed lie in the heart is why good things can become evil.  

These verses all speak the same core message: belief in God. 

One looks at belief from the perspective of how we give and the other looks at the perspective of how we get. 

Belief begins in the heart where the Holy Spirit knows the depths of who we are and reveals the truth about our giving and our getting in order to lead us closer to knowing God.  

When you give today consider what you expect in return, then how you feel after giving, and talk to God.

When you try and get something (a good meal, clothes, a job, or time with friends) consider who gets the glory from your getting whatever it is you get.  

Love you guys. 

Jmegrey

Who gets the glory from your good works?

Goood afternoon family of forever!

Bible verse of the day blew me away!

“In the same way,
let your light shine
before men, so that
they may see your good works
and give glory
to your Father in heaven.”
‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5:16‬ ‭

Let's break it down:
“In the same way,"

-As a light bulb turned on in a dark room is visible so your light will be visible compared to the darkness of this world.  You'll stick out if you're light in darkness.  People who don't know God, who live in darkness just as you once did (Eph. 5:8), will see something noticeably different about you because you have light.  But it doesn't stop there...

"let your light shine"

-We have light, but we can stifle it too.  If you put a box over a light bulb turned on it will not be as bright.  It can be muffled.  Covered by a box that we put over it if we are ashamed of it, scared of it, or feel unready to share it.  We have the ability to box in our light, usually a defense mechanism if you're not ready for what the light will do to your life.  One thing is certain, the light changes EVERYTHING.  When you step into a room that's pitch black you see nothing, but when you turn on a bright light...you see EVERYTHING: good and bad.  So to let your shine is to let the truth about who you are be made known to the world: your brokenness as well as your good transformations.

"before men, so that"

-Revealing our good and bad is one thing, but allowing others to see our worst features can feel too vulnerable.  People are watching and observing and thinking things all the time.  We show up in full light, exposing the truth about ourselves (and consequently about God), then they will be there to give their opinion.  But we do this SO THAT...

"they may see your good works"

-we have good and bad being revealed. But the point is to show our good (but not without hiding our bad).  The reason we need both is because anyone can do good.  Morality is formulaic in the sense that we all love the superheroes and the rescue team.  They are morally noble because of their good works to do good.  People admire the sacrifice of Schindler who saved many Jews during the Holocaust, or single mothers who work hard to make sure their kids do well--that's because Good Works are good works, but not all "good works" point to God.   Some good works point to the person doing the good work.  It's not necessarily a bad thing, it's just the reality of a good work.  It brings praise.  So what kinds of good works are we called to do with our light?

"and give glory"

-Our good works guide our light.  We can do good to shine our light on our self, or we can do good works to shine our light somewhere else.  But good works always elicit praise.  We see a good work and we think "wow" or "awww" toward wherever that good work points.  But regardless, the principle to remember is that not every good work points glory in the same direction.

"to your Father in heaven.”

-The only way that our good works point upward in the direction of glorifying God is by our allowing the worst self to remain exposed as well.  To not filter the truth.  To not hide or try to cover our mess.  By not hiding the bad while showing the good it helps direct praise from men to give glory to the One responsible for any good they see in us.  Otherwise if all we try to show is our good the direction of glory will point to ourselves.  We get glory from men who see how good we are.  We get their praise, their admiration, and their affirmation/approval.  But the more we reveal our worst to people the more our best transformations point to God getting the glory for every change that people see.  They will know by our worst that it was God who was responsible for turning this into that.  The less we become the more He becomes.  A true disciple of Jesus lives to let their light shine before men so that the praise it elicits is ONLY directed toward God.  We help others see God by our light.

Because the truth is no one is good apart from God who gave us His good.  That's what having light shows.

Who will get glory today by your good works?

Whatever you do, do it for people to praise God.  We are all beggars in this life pointing to the one who has all the bread.  Be free in the truth.

Love you guys.
Jmegrey
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Come back

If you've fallen from grace--the place where all you know is that all you have is a gift and that what you do have is undeserved--if you've fallen from that place of grace you will find yourself in selfishness, vanity, greed, anger, jealousy, and a feeling of weariness.  Now let's come back.

Because we can. 

Paul writes in Galatians 5 to the church at Galatia to stop trying so hard to "do right."  Nothing right comes from us! We are cracked buckets that can't hold diddly squat!  Eventually everything slips from our grip.  Christ got between the cracks of our bucket, getting stabbed and squished and humiliated in the process-- and there He held us together through suffering and blood.  So that now only by Him we have life.  Our buckets are full of Christ's flesh and blood in the cracks so that if we hold anything good it's only because his pain allows us to have it.  

Sometimes we see our cracks and lose hope.  We can't handle family issues, we hate the way we look, our grades suck, we can't make good friends, or we don't have the money we want to live a certain way.  This is a fall from grace.  Perfect people get perfect families, perfect people are beautiful, perfect people get perfect grades, perfect people are loved by everyone, and perfect people live comfortably!  Right?  Right?! If so we will try try try to be perfect.  Work our way towards being perfect rather than finding perfection in the opposite thing: grace.  

“You who are trying 

to be justified by the law 

are alienated from Christ; 

you have fallen from grace."

--

So if you desire to come back to grace it means 2 things: 

1.  It means you have a certain freedom in the cracks of your life.  The freedom is that they can be there and they won't change your freedom.  It's like when school is out and you still have stuff you learned in your mind, but it's no longer needed for a test.   The test is over...but you still carry around what you learned.  In the same way, your life-cracks exist, but they are no longer a threat to survival.  Life has been won by Christ.  This is the first step into grace. 

2.  Grace-laced freedom is extremely potent. It does not mean perfection in itself, it simply means an opening has been made to perfection: which is to develop a relationship with Jesus.  But here we can use our freedom to go back to slavery too since freedom means we are not held back from anything. This second step is important: practice using this grace-laced freedom to pursue a life of loving others.  Instead of loving to get a good life, get a good life by loving.  Loving others is not the means to an end, it is the end.  So we focus on how to love more truly rather than focusing on the payout of our "acts of love."  This means we must walk with the Holy Spirit in us who searches our hearts and reveals when we truly love and when we are just faking it.  

"For you were called to be free, brothers; 

only don’t use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but serve one another through love. 

For the entire law is fulfilled in one statement: Love your neighbor as yourself. 

But if you bite and devour one another, watch out, or you will be consumed by one another.”

‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5:4, 13-15‬ ‭

So there it is family.  

A fall from grace doesn't have to continue, but we can turn back to grace-laced freedom in Christ who is our life and avail ourselves to His transforming work in our hearts to love as He loved us.  

Stop trying to be perfect.

Let's choose to have life in Christ today. 

Come back. 

Love you guys

Spiritual Gifts

Goooood morning fambam!

We all love to get presents from people right?  I love surprise gifts from Ben, they make me so happy because I feel pretty special.  Or when Tyler's mom surprises me with a food gift or laveen gets me coffee, all these gifts...I love them!
Spiritual gifts are freaking way more awesome!  Cuz they remind me that God loves me!  When I hear someone say that they got blessed by my message or my blog or my singing or even just a text from me...I feel my heart is full because God's delight is on me for magnifying His glory!  It is a gift, not a given, to be used by God!  If you think about it, what could we possibly ever give God that is not already His?  Absolutely nothing.  Yet, God knows we were made to enjoy His love, so He gives us the gift of blessing others!  And He does this through spiritual gifts He gives us.

Everyone has a spiritual gift.  But not everyone enjoys the pleasure of having them, because these gifts are not like ordinary gifts.  These gifts are connected to  eternal purpose and epic love.  Are you starting to feel the desire to enjoy your spiritual gift?

"So also you — since you are zealous for spiritual gifts,
seek to excel in building up the church."

To find your gift God gives us the first step in having a heart to be on His mission.  The gift will certainly connect to His mission.  So before you grab your gift you must be on a mission to do something good for the Church.  (i.e.: encourage by counseling, clean rooms and bathrooms, organize education departments, media, etc.)  God wants to see your heart that is simply set on doing SOMETHING ANYTHING to build the church...before your gift is made known.  You may want to counsel, but when you do so you find out it's not your gift, so you go to cleaning and more than wanting what you want, your heart is wanting what the church needs.  Then your gift will become more clear.

"For you may very well be giving thanks, but the other person is not being built up."

A litmus test for whether your gift is truly from God will be in how it builds another up.  You may be thankful that God uses someone like you, but the real proof is that God uses you to build another up.  That's a spiritual gift.

Paul writes:
"I thank God that I speak in other languages more than all of you;
yet in the church I would rather speak 5 words with my understanding,
in order to teach others also,
than 10,000 words in another language."

Paul was a smart guy gifted in languages, and he used this to remind believers that the gift is useless without the purpose.  He said he'd rather say 5 words if it would teach people than 10,000 impressive words to show off how smart he was.  It was all about the people being built up.  His gift was for teaching, despite how much he knew or could do, he only did what was needed for the mission.  Paul enjoyed his gifts like no other!  He was content in all his life.   Cuz every gift God gave him was put to God's purpose....which is wise of God to give Paul ALOT OF GIFTS.  Happy is the one who is blessed by God!

"What then is the conclusion, brothers? Whenever you come together, each one has a psalm, a teaching, a revelation, another language, or an interpretation.
All things must be done for edification.
But everything must be done decently and in order.”
‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭14:12, 17-19, 26, 40‬ ‭

When we come together for youth or fellowship at home with our biological families or in doing second service...we are on mission with spiritual gifts.  The flesh naturally is about yourself.  How you look, what others think about you, how you compare, etc...and the biggest hindrance to enjoying our spiritual gifts from God is self-centeredness.  God's awesome gifts are all on a purpose:  edification.
But if all you think about is yourself, then you won't have the time to enjoy God's gifts.

To the one with many gifts, God gives more, but to the one who has little, even what he has is take away, because every gift is meant to give glory to God.

"For whoever has, more will be given to him, and he will have more than enough.
But whoever does not have, even what he has will be taken away from him." (Matt. 13:12)

The sole purpose of man's life is to glorify God.

Seek the gift that gives you purpose today.
Love you guys.

Jmegrey

Follow is fishing

Good morning family forever,

Every relationship will reflect your relationship with Jesus.

Clarity:
The way you are with you boyfriend or girlfriend will reflect your relationship with Jesus. The way you are with you mom or dad will reflect your relationship with Jesus.  The way you are with the homeless person on the street corner will reflect your relationship with Jesus.  The way you are with your teacher will reflect your relationship with Jesus.  You get the point?  Your attitude towards others (anyone) will reflect your relationship with Jesus.

The best way to truly see our relationship with Jesus is by looking at the person we treat the worst in our lives.  If you want more intimacy with God then look at the areas of your life with others that lacks the most love.  It is there that you will find what you're looking for, because every person we have difficulty loving is Jesus with skin on.  Want to go deeper?  Then love harder.

Why?

Because when we follow Jesus we not only gain the awesome relationship of love with Him, but we gain His mission.

We become one with Jesus.

Jesus teaches us how to follow Him and live life on earth as His disciple.  He died for the sins of all, so everyone essentially has the gift of being Jesus with skin on no more or less than you do!  If you received forgiveness from all your sins (past, present and future) then your enemy gets the same free pass!  Otherwise you mock the love of Jesus by trying to nail Jesus again with more sins that you hold on to, whether your own or someone else's!  This is trying to kill Jesus all over, and many people live as an enemy of the cross!

Being Jesus with skin on is an honor that means you are now beloved and perfect.
Forgiven and free.
Every sinner saved by grace is now Jesus with skin on, and that's why the way we treat one another helps reveal how we truly relate to Jesus.  You want Jesus?  He's walking around with skin on all around you!

So, what do I do to be doing the will of God?

"Follow Me," He told them,
"and I will make you fish for people!"
Matthew 4:19

Jesus doesn't say, I will make you make sure other people treat you well!
(In fact it's the opposite)

If you decide you want to follow Jesus it means you will inevitably become a fisher of people!  Laying down your life because people will not love you, they will hate you...but fish for those sinners!

"I will make you fish for people!"

Jesus didn't say, follow Me and we will see what happens from there.
Or follow Me and I will make your life easier!
Or follow Me and you won't have to deal with the bull crap of all these other imperfect imbeciles!

He said, "follow Me, and I WILL MAKE YOU FISH FOR PEOPLE!"

You become about His mission.
Think about your own conversion testimony.  He found you in the dark, in the pit of your own hell, and He carried you into the light by revealing His humiliation on the cross for you.  In the same way, He sends us out to one another to do the same...to bear our humiliation for one another.  In this way we fish for people by the weapon given to us by Jesus...which is Himself!  Be Jesus to others, because Jesus is in others!  When we love those who don't love us in return then love more!   Jesus is found in the forgiveness of sins, in our humility, and in grace given.  Everything you give is everything you've got!
What you got from Jesus is ....freaking unsurpassable in awesomeness!
It's better than anything you could think of in your tiny human brain because it includes everything that God could think of!

“But everything that WAS a gain to me: money, temporary comfort, cool points, reputation, beauty, temporary gratification, family, etc...
I have considered to be a loss because of Christ, the eternal treasure!
More than that, I also consider everything to be a loss in VIEW OF the SURPASSING value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord.
Because of Him I have suffered the loss of all things and consider them filth, so that I may gain Christ!"
‭‭Philippians‬ ‭3:7-8

The process of growth and intimacy in a relationship with Jesus involves both what you know and do as well as what you don't know and don't do.  What you know and do reflects also what you yet don't know and don't do.  So...you want more love of Jesus?  You won't find it in what you know and do, you'll find it in what you don't know and don't do...

When what you want becomes what you cannot gain on your own (the areas of what you don't know and don't do) then you're ready to be lead.

Jesus leads us in making us fish for people!

Follow is fishing and fishing is following.

Love you guys.
Jmegrey

heaven on earth

“But beyond these, my son, 

be warned: 

there is no end to the making of many books, and much study wearies the body. 

When all has been heard, 

the conclusion of the matter is: 

fear God and keep His commands, 

because this is for all humanity. 

For God will bring every act to judgment, 

including every hidden thing, 

whether good or evil.”

Ecclesiastes 12:12-14 

Good morning family forever,

It sure doesn't feel like you guys are family, especially when many of you don't live under the same roof as me, don't go out of your way for me when I'm hurting like my mom does, don't pay for my gas and phone bills like my dad does and don't buy me expensive gifts like my brother does.  Nope, I feel like most of you guys take rather than give haha. Take my pride, take my comfort, and take my last shred of dignity.  Yet, you guys are my more real family.  

The very ones God has called me to lay my life down for.  My pride, my time, my money, my very last breath if that's what is needed!  Yet my idea of family is more about getting love than giving it, until I'm reminded that I won't enjoy Heaven if I hold on to that lie.  In fact, Heaven will feel more like hell if I live thinking my own way is right.  (Read the book of Judges to see what community is like when everyone just does what is right in their own eyes!) 

 If I perceive something as good I will walk in that direction, away from what I perceive as bad or threatening. 

But what if my perception of good and bad is wrong?  (Which it naturally is when I'm not communing with the Holy Spirit.)

Loving the body of Christ is focused and in the body feels more like death.  Haha.  You give, give, and give and in the end get little to nothing in return from the ones you give to.  No recognition for all the hard work that goes on behind the scenes--this is a spiritual litmus test for our hearts.  Seeing what you really wanted from all your work, compared to what Christ got for all of His:

A life of constant obedience leading to death. 

Can you be satisfied with that?  

Probably not entirely! 

Haha but maybe a little.  

Maybe a part of you knows that there are some things inside of you that need to die.  

Things that control or enslave you to do things you don't want to do that take you further from God. 

Things inside of you that threaten you if you don't obey them.  But in order for those lies in your mind to die it takes feeling death inside of you.  Which is scary.  

We all know only God could control something as out-of-our-hands as death.  No human has the power to control whether or not they will die or what will happen after they do...that's all for sure God.  So when we enter into things like feeling death we enter into feeling our utter and complete helplessness and GIANT NEED for God.  Which is our true reality after all the security blankets have been stripped away.  

What if we stopped looking for how to get love and instead began looking for opportunities to give it away?  This is hard work resulting in feeling death inside (which is never pleasant) but it is a needed death of what is in me that is against God...and being against God is the real bad!  The real death! 

Imagine the kind of community and youth group we would be if that's the mentality we all had!  A competition for who could outdo the other in laying down their life!  

That is what Heaven will be like.  

And Heaven can begin now. 

Haha.  Love you guys.

Jmegrey